Dear friends in my friends,
amigas y amigos Queridas:
Maddy in her fantastic blog has published two posts on the topic of forgiveness, which includes our phrase of the week. The addresses of these are
Maddy en su fantástico blog en italiano ha publicado dos entradas sobre el tema del perdón, al que se refiere nuestra frase de la semana. Las direcciones de las mismas son:
Ho presoalcuni frammenti dei suoi posts, che potete leggere a continuazione:
He tomado algunos fragmentos de sus entradas, que pueden leer a continuación:
Many people think that forgiveness is a feeling, when in truth is an act of will. For this reason many say they can not forgive because they feel the 'offense received yet in the heart. Forgiveness has two stages: the first, and perhaps most important, is the change taking place before those who have offended. The natural thing, but certainly not Christian, is let themselves be led and guided by feelings of revenge and contempt for the person who insulted us. Instead, Jesus tells us to give and offer the other cheek or to break the cycle of violence. Typical of the Christian, even if it costs so much effort, keeping with the person who has offended a friendly attitude. This attitude will lead us to a later time, that of forgiveness, sanation the offense so as not to feel more pain in the soul. Forgiveness is not of our making, but of God and time.
If we truly practice the art of Christian forgiveness we realize that in a short time, the negative emotion disappears, even coming to love the one who offended us. 's the beauty of Christianity. "
Father Ernesto Maria Caro
Mucha gente piensa que el perdón es un sentimiento, cuando en verdad es un acto de voluntad. Por esto muchos dicen que no pueden perdonar, porque sienten la ofensa recibida todavía presente en el corazón. El perdón tiene dos etapas: la primera, y tal vez la más importante, es el cambio de conducta delante a quien nos ha ofendido. Es una cosa muy natural, pero por supuesto no cristiana, es dejarse conducir y guiar por sentimientos de venganza y de desprecio dirigidos a la persona que nos ha insultado. Al contrario, Jesús nos dice que tenemos que poner y ofrecer la otra mejilla, es decir que tenemos que romper el espiral de violencia. Típico del cristiano, aunque cueste mucho esfuerzo, es mantener con la persona que nos ha ofendido a friendly attitude. This behavior will lead to a second stage, that of forgiveness, healing of the offense so as not to feel more pain in the soul. Forgiveness is not our work but God and time. If indeed we exercise in the art of Christian forgiveness, we realize that in time the bad feeling go away, even to love those who have offended us. This is the beauty of Christianity. "
Father Ernesto Maria Caro
Quando NOI Odiame PERSON ESSA DA INTRAPPOLATI SIAM IN AN E TENTACOLARE VISCHIOSO Emozionale Silt PIU 'FORTE DELL'ACCIAIO. PERSON ODIATA Divento, PIAN PIANO, Il nostro INDISCUSSO Register. CI COME NOTTE E GIORNO IN MIND: CI PRIVA DELLA Ritrovato SERENITE 'Interior. IL FORGIVE E 'L'UNICO PER SO BROKEN TALE Silt E RITORNARE LIBERI unhealthy.
HATE WHEN A PERSON ARE CAUGHT IN AN EMOTIONAL AND STICKY RIBBON STRONGER THAN STEEL. PERSON BECOMES hated SLOWLY IN OUR UNDISPUTED MASTER. WE COME IN MIND DAY AND NIGHT. Deprives us of FIND SERENITY INTERIOR . FORGIVENESS IS THE ONLY WAY TO BREAK TIE AND BACK AS unhealthy to be free.
- SUL CHIARIFICAZIONI FORGIVE - CLARIFICATIONS ON FORGIVENESS
1. Forgive non è "dimenticare" CERT ferito non si cancellano per Tutta la vita. (Piaghe dopo di Gesù the Resurrezione )
1. Forgive non è "dimenticare" CERT ferito non si cancellano per Tutta la vita. (Piaghe dopo di Gesù
1. Forgiveness is not "forget" some wounds are not erased in a lifetime (Wounds of Jesus after the Resurrection )
2. Perdonare non vuol dire negare i fatti, ma SUPERARLI
2. Perdonare non vuol dire negare i fatti, ma SUPERARLI
2. Perdonar no significa negar los hechos, sino SUPERARLOS
3. Perdonare non è un semplice atto di volontà, ma un traguardo spirituale che si può raggiungere SOLO con l’aiuto di Dio.
3. Perdonare non è un semplice atto di volontà, ma un traguardo spirituale che si può raggiungere SOLO con l’aiuto di Dio.
3. Perdonar no es un simple acto de voluntad, sino una meta espiritual que se puede alcanzar SOLO con la ayuda de Dios.
4. Perdonare non vuol dire "cancellare" una situazione e renderla come prima: un vaso frantumato non ritorna, se incollato, ad essere prezioso come prima; è un’altra thing.
4. Perdonare non vuol dire "cancellare" una situazione e renderla come prima: un vaso frantumato non ritorna, se incollato, ad essere prezioso come prima; è un’altra thing.
4. Forgiveness does not mean "delete" a situation and continue as before, a broken glass does not return to being healthy, but stuck, not like before.
5. Perdonare non vuole dire "ai propri diritti rinunciare" vendetta ma NON esclude the Giustizia.
5. Perdonare non vuole dire "ai propri diritti rinunciare" vendetta ma NON esclude the Giustizia.
5. Forgiveness does not mean to say "give one's rights, rule of revenge, not justice.
6. Perdonare non è "scusare il fatto male, perché il male, they forgive, comunque NON MUTA IN" BENE.
6. Perdonare non è "scusare il fatto male, perché il male, they forgive, comunque NON MUTA IN" BENE.
6. Forgive no es "excuse hecho el mal", porque el mal, you perdonado, SUIT NO EN "BIEN",
Many of those who suffer an injury from a friend or a family member, for example, you feel hurt because they consider it a betrayal that has polluted the trust and trampled their dignity. Arises, then, the resentment that often remains indelible because, as a scar, hardly fades from their minds.
Muchas personas que sufren a agrave de un amigo de or a family member, por ejemplo, if the RECITAL porque sienten Heridas que a Verdadera Traición abusado de la confianza propia and the injuriado Dignidad. NACE entonces, que muchas veces el resentimiento queda de gravado way indeleble, como a scar, que desaparece de sus Sentimientos dificult.
If the friend or family asking forgiveness, the offended is also prepared to grant, but the resentment remains very often in a subtle and unlikely to re-establish relationships first. In his unconscious, the offender is someone who has betrayed and maybe still is capable of betraying ... This "resentment" is presented in many shades and can lead to subtle forms of revenge, even after forgiveness manifest.
When the friend or family ask for forgiveness, the victim is willing to grant it, but the resentment remains hidden and not so aware of mending ties as before. In the unconscious the offender is as someone who has betrayed and maybe you can still betray. This resentment is presented in so many nuances that can lead to subtle forms of revenge, even after forgiveness manifest.
Il vero forgive, quindi, è incondizionato, ma PUO 'SOLO NASCERE DALLA PRESA di coscienza Umile E DELLA OWN SINCERE FRAGILITA. " It prendessimo coscienza delle chiederemmo fragilità nostre più spesso agli altri forgive. Quando l'esigenza di sentirci sperientiamo perdonati, siamo più gli altri disposti to forgive and incondizionatamente di cuore.
True forgiveness is unconditional, but can only arise from MAKING OF CONSCIOUSNESS humble and sincere OWN WEAKNESS. If we become aware of our fragility more often would ask forgiveness of others. When we experience the need to feel forgiven, we are more willing to forgive others unconditionally heart.
"I forgive the enemy, because the only way I was free from the evil that you would like throw and drop on me. No. Law I know and do not fall into the trap like so many deluded . I know I'm free. I do not agree to bind myself to you with bonds of hatred and revenge. I do not accept that you would like to inflict evil because they are free. forgives me let it fall on you because it is generated by you. If I react rioffendendoti become no more creditor before you, but debtor. Thou terrestrial imprisoned at you until I clear the debt before the Divine Law. Legacies even those who agree with you on your attack. I lose with me melt. You can anything about me that I do not want. Everything you do will fall on you, why did you, and not about me if not to the extent that I made myself. I have a duty to help us in this danger you run. Because as far as I am suffering and I can forgive anything against the consequences of your actions and you will surely pay for your mistake. Remember .... do not hit me .... Why are you hitting yourself ..... I brother ... I forgive you. "
you lose enemiga, porque sólo así yo me free of pain tirarme encima y que quisieras hacer caer sobre mí. Conozco No. Yo Ley y no caiga en La Trampa like so many dreamers. I know to be free. Do not tie yourself to accept bonds of hatred and revenge. I do not accept that you would like to inflict evil because I am free. Forgiving I let him fall on you because it is generated by you. If I react I will become no more than a creditor before you but in your debtor. You'd have me prisoner in you until I pay off the debit before Divine Law. Lace up only you who agree with your attack. I unleashed me with forgiveness. You can do nothing about me that I do not want. Everything you do will fall on you, because what you do, and not on me to the extent that I do myself. I have a duty to succor in this danger. For though I suffer and forgive, I can not do anything against the consequences of your behavior and you inevitably have to pay your error. Remember ... I did not hit me ... you're beating yourself ... because I forgive you brother .... "
This post troverete a Preghiera per la conciliazione http://lucenelcuore.blogspot.com/2010/09/una-preghiera-per-la-riconciliazione.html
This post troverete a Preghiera per la conciliazione http://lucenelcuore.blogspot.com/2010/09/una-preghiera-per-la-riconciliazione.html
In this post you will find a prayer for reconciliation http://lucenelcuore.blogspot.com/2010/09/una-preghiera-per-la-riconciliazione.html
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